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Marriage is a sacred institution that is meant to establish a lifelong spiritual and moral partnership between two individuals. However, over time, marriage rituals have become heavily commercialised and steeped in meaningless traditions and social pressures. In contrast, the Rameni system of marriage, as revealed by Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj, offers a pure, scriptural, and spiritually uplifting way of uniting two souls without extravagance or burden.
What is Rameni/Ramaini?
Rameni is a spiritually-rooted marriage system that aligns with the teachings of the Eternal Knowledge (Tatvagyan). It is performed in accordance with the true path of devotion shown by Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj and is based on scriptural evidence.
The term "Rameni" is found in the Amar Granth Sahib, the holy scripture composed by Sant Garib Das Ji Maharaj, a great saint and disciple in the lineage of Sant Kabir Sahib. Among the various topics in this scripture, a specific one called "Asur Nikandan Rameni" is particularly used during the marriage ceremony.
The Asur Nikandan Rameni
- The "Asur Nikandan Rameni" is a divine speech from the Amar Granth Sahib.
- This passage glorifies the grandeur and virtues of Brahma, Vishnu, Shiv, and the 33 crore deities.
- The Rameni lasts for approximately 17 minutes and is recited or played during the marriage ceremony.
- Once this recitation is complete, the couple is officially considered married, without the need for any other rituals.
This ceremony is not only spiritually fulfilling but also deeply symbolic, as it invokes divine knowledge and reminds all present of the greatness of the Supreme God and the insignificance of ostentation in spiritual life.
Features of the Rameni Marriage Ceremony
The Rameni system firmly rejects superstitions and societal customs that are not based on the scriptures. Below are the key features of this simple yet divine marriage system:
✅ No Dowry System
- Dowry is strictly prohibited. Taking or giving dowry is considered a sin.
- Both families participate equally in the ceremony without any financial burden.
✅ No Extravagance
- There is no unnecessary expenditure on flashy decorations, DJs, dancing, or hiring expensive venues.
- The focus is on simple ceremony, not show-off or status display.
✅ No Rituals Against Scriptures
- No henna (mehendi) is applied on hands.
- No facial makeup or bridal fashion extravaganza is performed.
- No sacred fires, seven rounds, or chants of mantras from unauthentic sources.
- All practices align with the true path of Bhakti (devotion).
✅ Simple Dress Code
- The bride and groom wear simple, modest clothing.
- No glittery or glamorous attire is encouraged.
✅ Communal Meal - Bhandara
- The attendees are served Bhandara, a free, spiritually-blessed meal, in the Ashram or local Naam Diksha Centre.
- Everyone sits and eats together in a humble and equal manner, eliminating caste or class differences.
Spiritual Significance of Rameni
- Marriage is not just a worldly event—it is a spiritual union of two souls striving together for salvation.
- The Rameni system sanctifies this bond by starting the couple’s life together in the remembrance of God.
- By replacing meaningless rituals with scriptural recitations, this system emphasizes God-centered living.
- This ensures the couple begins their marital life with divine blessings and true spiritual wisdom.
Rameni and Social Reform
- Rameni promotes equality, simplicity, and morality, thereby eradicating social evils like dowry, caste discrimination, and show-off culture.
- It has been a model for social unity, cutting across religious boundaries.
- By following Rameni, couples are set on the path of devotion, and the society becomes more spiritually enriched.
Conclusion
The Rameni marriage ceremony is a gift from Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj, who has revived this ancient, scriptural, and pure form of marriage from the treasure of true spiritual knowledge. It aligns with the will of the Supreme God Kabir Sahib and is free from worldly pomp. It not only removes the financial burden from families but also lays the foundation of a God-oriented and purpose-driven life for the couple. In today’s materialistic world, Rameni shines as a beacon of spiritual integrity and social reform.
If you're interested in learning more or want to conduct a Rameni marriage, you can contact the nearest Naam Diksha Centre. Embrace the path of truth, simplicity, and divine love through this sacred union.
